Here’s a tap-along if you have fertility/infertility problems.
- Make a list of all the things that are bothering you about not being able to conceive.
- Rate the intensity of each issue on a scale from 1 – 10, where 10 is worst.
- Tap your Karate Chop Spot and read out loud:
Ok, this is a very sensitive subject and I don’t want to get in too deep, it’s a little scary to even talk about it because we have been so disappointed and hurt in the past, I would like to love and accept myself but somehow it isn’t working.
Even though I am afraid to get my hopes up, I wait to take the test and the waiting is so hard on us… we want this so bad and yet that test is running our lives and I would love to be open and willing to take this situation and be kind and gentle with myself.
Even though our sex life is nowhere near as spontaneous as it used to be, we now have to perform on demand when it’s "The Right Time"… this is very discouraging and taking some fun out of our lives, if this wasn’t so important and we didn’t want to start a family so bad we could just let things flow with ease and grace… why can’t we just have sex, get pregnant and have a baby?
Do you know how many people who don’t want a baby have them… where is the fairness in that? And I want to be open and willing to love and accept where I am in my life doing what I am supposed to do.
Even though we could go the IVF route, it’s costly and taking drugs is not my idea of anything good but others have done it and been successful so it is an option, I just want to exhaust all the rest of the options before we go there… what if there was an emotional reason for this seeming delay, my dr. of acupuncture has sent me to the EFT person to see if that might be what is standing in our way of being fertile and conceiving. The doctors can’t find any physical reason why I am not pregnant so maybe there might be an emotional reason behind it. That hadn’t occurred to me before so let’s have a look at it.
The EFT expert has had many clients come that can’t conceive and when they remove the block then all systems are GO.
One story tells of a woman who was in a bad relationship and vowed every day NOT to bring a baby into this world, and it seems she had given her fallopian tubes and ovaries the instructions to not produce and so they didn’t.
Another woman was terrified that she would be just like her mother and she would not wish that on any baby.
There are as many reasons why not to allow pregnancy as there are couples who want a family.
Continue tapping your Karate Chop Spot and read out loud:
My emotions are strong and powerful and my thoughts direct my body… what if I could de-stress about this part of my life… relax and let nature takes it course when I get my fears, anxiety, worry and lack of trust out of the way, what if we could have a baby that easy… well, it hasn’t happened yet and my nerves are almost at the breaking point… maybe there is something to this Emotional stuff. It is easy to do, tapping into my personal ability to be kind and gentle to me and my partner, what if we gave that a try?
I choose to be willing to work with more natural ways to conceive because I am willing to love and accept myself anyway.
So would this tapping help with delivery and what about new baby/new parents? We hear those are stressful times and this is a great way to de-stress, we can help one another… Oh, I see bright days and nights ahead when we have this simple, little tool to help us every step of the way.
Take a breath in, drink some water and check out the intensity rating of your issue before the tapping… if your numbers have gone up or down you can Thank yourself! I can’t change your numbers, however, you can and did I presume, that’s how good EFT is, you and EFT make a great pair.
Dawn Murray, EFT Expert